How to deal with stubborn and overwhelming loved ones?

In society the family connection is looked upon as bringing happiness. Nothing special has to be done for this. Yet what is true human happiness? This is what becomes apparent when one looks closer. There is the need of wisdom, as you have just realized yourself. Using your wisdom you can see what really matters in life, and that is spending time with others. If you put your focus on this, spending time with your family, talking to them, you will be able to express yourself from a deeper place of wisdom.